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helpline for domestic violence perpetrators

Who we are...

A confidential and anonymous helpline and email service for anyone concerned about their violence and/or abuse towards a partner or ex-partner.

We are a team of skilled professionals offering advice, information and support to domestic violence perpetrators. 


Men abusing their female (ex) partners

Men abusing their male (ex) partners

Women abusing their (ex) partners) 

as well as, Domestic violence victims looking for help on behalf of their abusive (ex) partner, concerned friends and family of abusers  and Frontline workers


Click links for more information on services that could apply to you. 


The service is run and managed by Respect

- Our key focus is to increase the safety of those experiencing domestic violence through promoting effective interventions with perpetrators. 

Respect Telephone Helpline

Opening hours: the Respect Phoneline is open Monday-Friday 9am-5pm.


Call us on freephone: 0808 802 4040 

(free from landlines and from mobiles using the O2, Orange, T Mobile, Three (3), Virgin, and Vodafone networks). 


- Calls will not appear on BT landline phone bills. 

- A voicemail service is available: we aim to return calls within two working days.


Email us on: 

 (we aim to reply within two working days). 



Members Programme

As well as the Telephone and email advice service, Respect also offers Members Programmes.

These offer additional support, resources and training to our members. 


For more information about these services and how to become a member, call our helpline so that we can find a service which is right for you.